# The Lutheran Pioneer_St. Louis_1900_S34 # Machine transcription, uncorrected — CHI Digital Archive (demonstration) 34 The Lutheran Pioneer. (For the LUTHERAN PIONEER.) The Fourth Commandment. Which is the Fourth Commandment? Thou shalt honor thy father and thy mother, that it may be well with thee, and thow mayest live long on the earth. What does this mean? We should fear and love God, that we may not despise our parents and masters, nor provoke them to anger; but give them honor, serve and obey them, and hold them in love and esteem. Let us notice first that while this Command- ment mentions only father and mother, that is, our natural parents, it includes far more than these. This Commandment, namely, in- cludes our masters, too. Our master is he who has the right tocommand us. Such mas- ters are the civil government, our teachers, pastors, andemployers. All these are, indeed, our neighbors also, but they are neighbors whom God’s ordinance has placed over us. (Read the Table of Duties in your Small Catechism.) In the Explanation of the First Article, we acknowledge God to be our Creator, Preserver, and Ruler. God is, therefore, our true Father. But next to God we owe our life to our natural parents; they provide us with the needs of this life, protect and guard us. Our parents are the agents, the representatives of God. — In the earliest days, in the days of Abraham, Isaac, and Jacob, the parental authority and power was, however, much more extensive and comprehensive than in our day. These ancient patriarchs were not only ‘‘fathers’’ in the modern sense of the word, but they were the teachers, pastors, and rulers of their fami- lies and tribes. They were the superiors of their people in home, church, and state. And when, therefore, the Fourth Commandment speaks of ‘‘father,’’ we must understand this word in its old, original, and comprehensive sense. ‘‘Honor thy father and mother’’ means, then: ‘‘Honor all those whom God has placed oyer you in home, state, school, and church.” Luther comprises all these our superiors, aside from our natural parents, in the term ‘“masters.’” And if now our parents are the representatives of God, our masters are equally so. Let us now proceed to consider the Fourth Commandment with reference to our parents. We shall not despise them. Despising is the opposite of esteeming and honoring. You despise your parents when you think little of them, when you forget that they are a gift of God. Children that despise their parents soon show their contempt in their gestures and by impudent words and actions. They pay no attention to the wishes of their parents, and Speak of them as the ‘‘old man’”’ and ‘‘old _Woman.*’ Ofcourse, when such children grow up, they never think of asking their parents _ for advice, and if they should rise in life, get ‘Tich or occupy some higher position in the world, they will probably be ashamed of their parents and thrust them aside altogether. Neither shall we provoke our parents to anger by bad behavior. Jacob’s sons provoked their father to anger. When they had sold Joseph, Jacob cried: ‘I will go down into the grave unto my son mourning.’”? Oh, how many a child has brought its parents down into the graye, by its disobedience, its evil words and deeds. ‘This earth of ours is dotted with many & grass-grown mound beneath which lie the poor victims of their murderous offspring. Murderous offspring, I say, not because they killed their parents outright, but by the far more cruel method of disobeying them or bringing shame upon them by leading sinful and ungodly lives. This world is full of chil- dren that can see their parents in need without offering them help. So general is the ingrati- tude of children, that it has become prover- bial. While a poor father finds it possible to provide for six children, six children often find it impossible to provide for one father. Yes, there are even children that have sunken so low as to curse their parents and put their brutal hands upon them! They dare to lay hands upon the representatives of God! Verily, the wrath of God resteth upon such unnatural off- spring. Let all children take heed to the words of Solomon: ‘*The eye that mocketh at his father, and despiseth to obey his mother, the ravens of the valley shall pick it out, and the young eagles shall eat it... . He that wasteth his father, and chaseth away his mother, is a son that causeth shame, and bringeth reproach’’ (Proy. 30, 17. 19, 26). Absalom’s example shows us the end of a child that despised his father and provoked him to anger. — We shall honor our parents. This we do when we serve and obey them, and hold them in love and esteem. A beautiful example of ministering filial love we have in Ruth. Though she was young and strong and could easily have found a good position among her own people, she would not forsake her aged mother-in-law. When her mother-in-law would entreat her to leave her, she said: ‘‘Entreat me not to leave thee, or to return from following after thee: for whither thou goest, I will go; and where thou lodgest, I willlodge: thy people shall be my people, and thy God my God: where thou diest, will I die, and there will I be buried: the Lord do so to me, and more also, if aught but death part thee and me.”? Thus did Ruth serve her mother-in-law. May you thus serve your father and mother. How much trouble have you cost your mother, how much has not your father done for you! Be thankful for every opportunity given you to be of service to them. And the larger you get, the greater may your services he. Joseph remembered his old father and provided for him in the years of famine. Our blessed Saviour served his’parents mosé faithfully, and even in the agony of death he did not forget to make pro- vision for his mother, Of the Christchild we read, Luke 2, 51, that it was subject unto its parents. Jesus’ ex- ample all children should imitate. Every child should obey its parents without murmuring. And even then when your parents are a little whimsical in their requests, you should obey them, knowing that this is well-pleasing unto the Lord (Col. 3, 20). Of course, God does not wish us to obey our parents when they ask us to do something sinful; and if our parents should demand a sinful act of us, we must re- member that in doing so they for the time being cease to be God’s representatives, and it is our duty to disobey them in that thing. — It is of importance to remember that we remain our parents’ children as long as they live. And though as we grow up it is not possible to ask our parents’ advice in every matter, we should never undertake anything of impor- tance without getting our parents’ consent and good-will. A child will never be the loser by getting a father’s opinion in any matter, an opinion which flows from a loving heart. The explanation finally enjoins us to hold our parents in love and esteem. Your parents have been kind to you; in word and deed have they proven their love for you, and therefore it is but natural that you should love them in return, and be obedient tothem. You should include them in your prayers and never forget to thank God for having given you in your parents such a precious gift. Above all should you have patience with their weaknesses when old age comes upon them, and regard it as 8 token of God’s grace if He gives you the op- portunity to provide for them in their old age and to cheer up their last days upon earth. Concerning this Commandment St. Paul says, Eph. 6, 2. 3: ‘‘Honor thy father and mother, (which is the first Commandment with promise,) that it may be well with thee, and thou mayest live long on the earth.’”’ This promise was fulfilled in Ruth. She became the wife of Boas, the great-grandmother of David, Israel’s greatest king, and the ances- tress of the Saviour. Though her body has returned to the earth, yet her name will live to the end of days. And this promise has not yet lost its force for the obedient children of our day. God’s blessing and the good-will of men will ever rest upon the obedient child, and it will live long upon the earth. True, God may call the obedient child out of this life at an early age, but His promise is fulfilled never theless. For if God in His wisdom sees that a long natural life is not beneficial for the pious child, He gives unto it the truly long life; namely, eternal life in heaven. F. J- L. _—_—2—~< oe p> One evening, Luther saw cattle going in the fields, in a pasture, and said: Behold, there go our preachers, our milk-bearers, butter- bearers, cheese- and wool-bearers, which do daily preach unto us the faith towards God, that we should trust in Him, as in our loving Father; He careth for us, and will maintain and nourish us. ;