# LCMS Convention Workbook_St. Louis Missouri_1998_S352 # Machine transcription, uncorrected — CHI Digital Archive (demonstration) 350 THEOLOGICAL DOCUMENTS messages about marriage and family, both positive and negative, might be communicated by carrying out this plan? Depending upon available resources and time, the group might also explore secular discussions of the problems and possibilities of surrogacy. Perhaps a member of the congregation who works in reproductive health care or ina family services agency could provide helpful background. (CLOSURE In the previous section we have been surveying a wide diversity of resources that might be relevant to the question raised by our first case. The second main phase in connecting our Christian faith with practical problems involves bringing order out of the disciplined chaos of our initial gathering of information. This second phase can be called the search for closure. Human beings have a God-given capacity for bringing meaningful order to informational disorder. Working together, listening to each other, praying together, we often increase our ability to find what is most impor- tant. If we have been patient in exploring a variety of questions during the disciplined chaos phase, we can often reap benefits in coming to an agree” ment that is well understood and accepted among us all. Even if we do not completely solve our ethical puzzles, we may nevertheless come to a bet- ter understanding of where and why we are perplexed and where and why we disagree. In order to understand how closure comes about, we can be helped by noticing again, as we did at the beginning of this study, that practical rea- soning involves two main activities. 1. We seek, gather, and select information. Disciplined chavs helps us in the seeking and gathering of information. We then attempt to select and assemble the information that seers most relevant, reliable, and helpful for understanding and solving the problem with which we are wresthng. , 2. We arrange the information we have gathered in ways that lead us to see what conclusions are best supported by the available information. This aspect of our God-given reasorung powers usually operates rather automatically. Mistakes concerning which conclusion» are supported by which information are for the most part both readily detected and easily remedied. Especially when we work together and correct each other, this activity in our reasoning poses few serious problems. Typically we move back and forth between gathering and selecting information and examining what conclusions follow. In the early stages of studying a puzzle it is usually wise to focus on the gathering of informa- tion through encouraging disciplined chaos. We then make tentative selec- tions of the information available to us and examine what conclusions fol- low. If we settle too quickly on a definite selection of information, we run 13 God's grace in Christ. That grace includes the explicit promise that “the Spirit helps us in our weakness; for we do not know how to pray as we ought, but the Spirit himself intercedes for us with sighs too deep for words. And he who searches the hearts of men know's what is the mind of the Spirit, because the Spirit intercedes for the saints according to the will of God. We know that in everything God works for good with those who love him, who are called according to his purpose” (Rom. 8:26-28). The emergence of disagreement on practical matters must be under- stood in proper perspective. Disagreement does not immediately mean that we are no longer disciplined by a common confession. This is so because an important part of what it means to share a common confession involves sharing a common set of strategies for seeking, gathering, and selecting, information. Our common confession provides common places for seeking and gathering, and a basis for evaluating and selecting, the information we will rely upon. We have just been studying how a key to effective problem solving lies in finding the right questions to ask. The reasoning activity that makes the most difference usually involves the seeking, gathering, and selecting of information. Confessing Christians share a wide-ranging commitment toa common set of strategies for seeking, gathering, and selecting information as we make our way through life. These strategies do not guarantee that we will achieve agreement on all our practical choices, but they do guar- antee a wide-ranging consistency in our response to life’s problems and a foundation for exploring our disagreements in the hope of coming to com- mon conclusions. An Illustration In 1993 the Commission on Theology and Church Relations adopted and published a report titled Christian Care at Life’s End. This document explores how Christian teaching concerning the end of life frames signifi- cant questions that do not always have well-defined answers. An impor- tant observation in the document reads as follows: [Whe should expect that Christians who have had different specific expe- riences may at times disagree concerning application of principles to specif- ic cases. And, in fact, we do find Christians respecting fundamental biblical principles and yet coming tu different decisions concerning medical care. . We ... believe that our disagreements over the details of application to extremely difficult cases neither discredit the pnnaples nor threaten our common commitment to God’s Word. We ... owe to each other continu- ing dialog on difficult points, a dialog that respects the consciences of per- sons who are seeking to live God-pleasing lives in the context of sincere and careful attention to God's Word on the basis of accepted principles of interpretation. ” Christian Care at Life’s End, A Report of the Commission on Theology and Church Relations of The Lutheran Church—Missouri Sy nod, 1993, 21 15 the risk of excluding some of the information that would be most valuable in addressing the problem at hand. Often a key to effective problem solving lies in finding the right ques- tions to ask. We have already noted that reasoning concerning which con- clusions are supported by which information is relatively straightforward. The reasoning activity that makes the most difference usually involves the gathering and selecting of information. Once we are satisfied that we have sought out all the information that is likely to be helpful, we tum increasingly to the task of making sure pre- cisely what conclusions follow from the best available information. When the available information seems reliable and consistently points to a spe cific conclusion, then closure has been achieved and we are ready to make our choices and to act. Biblically Disciplined Reasoning and Disagreement One more issue needs to be studied before we conclude our discussion of the surrogacy case. People popularly believe that well-defined commu- nities that share a common faith and life will easily and always come to common conclusions about practical choices in life. This popular belief is partially true. Christians are in agreement on a wide variety of important questions concerning, how life is to be lived. But this popular belief is also misleading. The problem is with the word always. Well-defined communities do not always and easily come to common conclusions. There are at least two reasons for this fact. 1. God has created a humanity characterized by great diversity. Wherev- er two, three or more people gather, there you find fascinating differ- ences. This means that even in well-defined communities we must expect to find differences concerning a vanety of practical choices. In a world untouched by sin, this diversity would be seen simply to reflect the beauty of God’s creative work. Christians who know themselves chosen in Baptism are not frightened by every difference or disagree- ment that anses in the body of Christ about the application of doctrinal or ethical principles. They trust that God wil help us all toward speak- ing the truth in love (Eph. 4:15), and they respect Christian freedom for honest differences (Gal. 5:1, 13; 1 Peter 2:16). 2. But our world is deeply touched and twisted by sin and evil. This means that even in well-defined communities we can be sure that each of us is tainted by the futility to which the whole creation has been sub- jected (Rom. 8:18-23). For this reason, sometimes we are unable to dis- cer together with certainty the right path among difficult choices. At such times we continue carefully and prayertully to reason with each other in the hope of coming to agreement, but we must also be sensitive and careful concerning conscientious but different choices to which fel- low members may be led. In such circumstances we learn anew how much we all need a Savior and how we all must live at all times by 14 Returning to the Case: Surrogacy in the Christian Congregation Our surrogacy case has already itlustrated much of what we Christians have in common, even though we have so far not come to a conclusion about a reconimended choice. Because we are Christians, we sensitively and patiently hear each other out. Because we are Christians, we agree to pray together for God’s guidance. Because we are Christians, we together search the Holy Scriptures for guidance. Because we are Lutheran Chris- tians, we pay special attention to the ecumenical creeds, Luther's cate- chisms, and the other confessional writings in the Book of Concord. Consider, for example, how we might make use of the Small Cate- chism’s discussion of matters relevant to surrogacy and family life. In the Small Catechism Luther presents the Ten Commandments as a means for raising questions concerning our daily life. He was aware that we are often helped as much by having at hand effective strategies for questioning as by having detailed lists of answers to questions that may not be appropriate. Luther uses each of the Ten Commandments to prompt lines of ques- tioning for examining one’s life. The Sixth Commandment—“You shall not commit adultery”—concers the relationship of husbands and wives, a topic relevant to our case. Luther writes in explanation, “We should fear and love God so that we lead a sexually pure and decent life in what we say and do, and husband and wife love and honor each other.”!* Notice how the simple prohibition of adultery becomes for Luther an exploration of questions concerning how, in matters of sex, our words and deeds remain pure and honorable and how husbands and wives can love and honor each other. This explanation does not answer every question, but confessional Lutherans are committed to framing questions about surrogacy in its light. Questions about purity, love, and honor in marriage can be framed in a variety of ways. When the Commission’s 1981 report on sexuality raised the question whether third-party intrusion into such an intimate matter as pregnancy compromises the one-flesh nature of marriage, it was, like Luther, asking us to examine one of the many dimensions of God's guid- ance concerning marriage. The Fourth Commandment—"Honor your father and your mother" is also relevant to our case. Luther writes, “We should fear and love God so that we do not despise or anger our parents and other authorities, but honor them, serve and obey them, love and cherish them.”"* Here again Luther helps us to frame some questions that Christians should be asking " Lather's Smal Catechism, 10. “Tod