# LCMS Convention Workbook_St. Louis Missouri_2010_S324 # Machine transcription, uncorrected — CHI Digital Archive (demonstration) THEOLOGICAL DOCUMENTS­­—COMMISSION ON THEOLOGY AND CHURCH RELATIONS 78. David Blankenhorn, whose research supports the assertions of this entire paragraph, calls the declining numbers of men who raise the children they beget “our most urgent social problem,” Fatherless America: Confronting Our Most Urgent Social Problem (New York: Basic Books, 1995). One may also consult The National Marriage Project website at www.mar riage.rutgers.edu regarding the problem of fatherlessness in America. On the problem of comparatively less male than female commitment to Christianity, see also David Murrow, Why Men Hate Going to Church (Nashville: Thomas Nelson, 2005). 79. See Barbara Dafoe Whitehead, The Divorce Culture (New York: Alfred A Knopf, Inc., 1996), 50–64, on changing female attitudes regarding divorce. David Popenoe and the Rutgers University National Marriage Project studies state that roughly two-thirds of divorces are initiated by women (see “The Top Ten Myths of Divorce,” http://marriage.rutgers.edu/Publica tions/pubtoptenmyths.htm). More men than women are using internet services to seek a spouse. See graphs attached to Carl Bialik, “Marriage-Maker Claims Are Tied in Knots,” Wall Street Journal (July 29, 2009), A11. On growing numbers of intentional single motherhood, see Emily Yoffe, “And Baby Makes Two,” Slate (March 20, 2008), online edition at www.slate .com/id/2185944/pagenum/all/. 80. See Phil 2:5–11. Note the connection between Christian submission and humility. TDNT, Vol. 8: 45. 81. AE 36:116. 82. “To this congregation and to every member of it belong the keys, the power to forgive sins, and to proclaim the gospel—privately, and publicly if one is required to do so by others having equal authority.” AE 36:298. 83. AE 36:138–139, 145. 84. See The Service of Women in Congregational and Synodical Offices, 1. The priesthood also requires that all Christians, male and female, are to judge the doctrine of their pastors. C. F. W. Walther, “The Sheep Judge Their Shepherds,” at www.reclaimingwalther.org/articles/sheep.htm. 85. Women in the Church provides a brief background to the concept on p. 9. The term is sometimes used in the plural, “orders of creation,” with reference to the fact that creation includes the establishment of such various orders as marriage and economic vocation. Either in the singular or the plural, “The point of this doctrine is to affirm that Christians like all other human beings exist in a framework of universal structures that are there prior to and apart from the fact that Christians believe in Christ and belong to his Church.” Carl Braaten, No Other Gospel (Minneapolis: Fortress Press, 1992), 120. 86. The “order of redemption” reminds us that in Christ, by faith, we are all “one in Christ”—not Jew, Greek, male, female, etc. (Gal 3:28). See Women in the Church, 22–27, which concludes its comparison of the orders: “The individual characteristics of believers are not abolished by the order of redemption,” 27. 87. Mickey L. Mattox in “Luther on Eve, Women, and the Church” notes that the reformer develops his understanding of women primarily 324 from the Old Testament, not the New Testament, and, specifically, from Eve. The Pastoral Luther: Essays on Martin Luther’s Practical Theology, Timothy J. Wengert, ed. (Grand Rapids: Wm. B. Eerdmans, 2009), 255. 88. Gustaf Wingren, Luther on Vocation, trans. Carl C. Rasmussen (Philadelphia: Muhlenberg Press, 1957, reprint CPH, Concordia Heritage Series, n.d.), 172. 89. Lutherans have referred to three “uses” of the Law of God. The first is the Law’s use as a curb or check against human sinfulness as it condemns sin and threatens punishment. The Law’s ability to show us our sin and bring us to repentance is its second use. The third use is the guidance it offers for Christian living that pleases God. Formula of Concord, Ep and SD, Article VI. 90. A helpful survey of this topic in recent LCMS history is found in Scott Murray, Law, Life, and the Living God: The Third Use of the Law in Modern American Lutheranism (St. Louis: CPH, 2002). 91. “Here one should also note that Abraham says that he spoke most respectfully to his wife. He did not give an order and did not say: ‘You must obey me; I compel you; I demand from you.’ No, he said: ‘I beg you,’ and he does not consider her action obedience; he considers it a favor, as though by a superior person, in accordance with Peter’s precept (1 Peter 3:7): ‘Bestow honor on the female sex.’ But why did Moses record this? Doubtless in order to present an example of a very fine marriage, something which is indeed a rarity on earth but is most pleasing both to God and to men. Therefore by means of this very example Peter exhorts spouses to learn to love each other and to treat each other with respect and not as people are now in the habit of doing. Husbands generally are lions in their homes and are harsh toward wives and domestics. Similarly, the wives generally domineer everywhere and regard their husbands as servants. But it is foolish for a husband to want to display his manly courage and heroic valor by ruling his wife. On the other hand, it is also unbearable if wives want to dominate. Such marriages—where both are capricious—are common, as the proverb has it: ‘Three things are rare, but they are pleasing to God: harmony among brothers, love among neighbors, and accord between spouses.’ The reason is that people generally enter into this kind of life without prayer and, like swine, regard only what is carnal. Therefore the wife does not see what is truly good in her husband. On the other hand, the husband sees in his wife only what displeases him. Since there is no mutual tolerance between them, quarrels and countless outbursts of anger arise.” AE 3:353–54. 92. For example, Jerome questions false views of submission: “[F]requently wives are found to be much superior to husbands at ordering and running the house, and educating the children, and maintaining family discipline, while the husbands live in luxury and pursue mistress after mistress. Whether wives of such caliber should rule, or fear, their husbands, I leave to the reader’s judgment.” Quoted by J. C. Cavadini, “The Sacramentality of Marriage in the Fathers” Pro Ecclesia 17:4 (Fall 2008), 445. 93. See Augustine’s Eighty-three Different Questions in Fathers of the Church, vol. 70, 42 and also his The Christian Combat, in Fathers of the Church, vol. 21, 338–39, as referenced and quoted in Thomas C. Oden, Life in the Spirit (San Francisco: Harper, 1992), 8. 2010 Convention Workbook 2010 Convention.indb 324 4/15/10 2:40 PM