# LCMS Convention Workbook_St. Louis Missouri_1983_S328 # Machine transcription, uncorrected — CHI Digital Archive (demonstration) 328 THEOLOGICAL DOCUMENTS Introduction It is necessary that the church. in its concern for the lives of human beings created by the Father of our Lord Jesus Christ. should address itself to the issues of human sexuality and offer guidance to all who seek to understand our identity as sexual beings. Few characteristics so deepiy stampour selfhood as our maleness and femaleness. In fact. itis quite impossible for us to know ourselves as God's good creation without a recognition of our identity as sexual beings. Nor is it possible to perceive this identity rightly without remembering what Jesus Christ did to redeem us from the power of sin and its effect on our lives as sexual beings. As we address the problems of human sexuality which involve questions related to the meaning of human self-giving. faithfulness in human relationships. and the relationship be- tween men and women, we doso in the confidence that the Holy Spirit helps us to use the gift of sexuality in ways pleasing toour Creator. The Commission on Theology and Church Relations therefore presents this report on human sexuality as prepared by its Social Concerns Committee with the prayer that it will assist the church in its consideration of this important aspect of our lives.! The purposes of this study will be (1) to place the order of marriage within the larger framework of human sexuality as God's creation: (2) to discuss the purposes or ends which marriage serves, as these are taught in the Scriptures and understood in the history of the church: and (3) to discuss. inthe light of these purposes. certain problems or “issues” which must sed Ina resviutier Res, “Th bon 2:34 reads as fu, E comemends to mankind the abuse. ari lessings of sexua aiite therefore best Commission on the membersnipet discussion” I. Man as Male and Female Robert Farrar Capon has written: Suppose I wrote a book called Ths Nerul Litt of a Nun. Youknow what people would think. They would be curious—or shocked. They would expect to find it either a big joke or a compilation of a slightly prurient propa- ganda. How many would be ahle to see that, on the real meaning of the word serva/. itisa perfectly proper title? Fora nun's life of course is utterly sexual. She thinks asa woman, prays as a woman, reacts as a woman and commits herself as a woman. No monk, no celibate, ever embraced his life for her kind of reasons. He couldn't if he wanted to. Of course she omits, as an offering to God. one particular expression of her sexuality: but itis only one out of a hundred. The sexual congress she does not attend is not life's most important meeting, all the marriage manuals to thé contrary notwithstanding.? Capon’s point. made in fairly amusing fashion. is an important one. A study of human sexuality from the standpoint of Christian theology cannot begin with a discussion of marriage. Rather, it must begin with the creation of man as male and female. with what Kar! Barth called “being-in-fellow- humanity.”? This is. after all. where the Scriptures begin. “So God created man in his own image. in the image of God he created kim: male and female he created them” (Gen. 1:27: italies added}. The suggestion here is that it is impossible to come to know the significance of our humanity without reference to the sexual differentiation between male and female. To be human simply ‘x to exist in this male-female duality.* Consequently. it Va es empvers and empan Se 6 inevitably engage the attention of those who think about human sexuality. While the Commission recognizes that not all prob- lems in the area of human sexuality are addressed in this report. it is hoped that the affirmations stated at the end of the study will provide guidance for Christians as they seek to order their lives as sexual beings in ways which will honor both God and their neighbor. will be insufficient to say that God has created two kinds of human beings. mate and female. Rather. we should say that God has created human beings for fellowship and that the male- female polarity is a basic form of this fellowship. To stress that human beings are created for community as male and female necessarily involves an equally firm insistence that they are male or female.’ We are created not for life in isolation but for community. a community which binds those who are different. We are not simply “persons.” however important that claim may on occasion be as a protest against inequities. When the Scriptures dea! with human beings as man and woman. created to realize not themselves but their fellowship as a harmonious union of those who are different, they view man and woman as embodied creatures. Men and women are not mere persons who meet in a purely spiritual union. On the contrary, the body has its own integrity. What we do in our bodies is done by us; there is no inner. purely spiritual self which remains untouched by our physical commitments (1 Cor. 6:18). Weare. quite simply, created as embodied creatures: as male and female. Thus we do not find in the other simply an image of ourselves, an alter ego: rather. the fellowship for which we are created is a fellowship of those who are different and who vet are joined in a personal community of love. There is a further reason why we must begin not with marriage but with the creation of man as male and female. Not every human being need enter the order of marriage (1 Cor. 7:1-7). Celibacy is also in accordance with the will of God. Despite the justifiable polemic of the Reformers against the view of medieval Christendom which institutionalized celibacy asa way of life more acceptable to God than the marital union of husband and wife. we cannot allow that polemic to determine everything we say about the fellowship of man and woman. The church today must certainly make clear to its people that marriage is ordained by God and sanctified by Him and that. indeed. the fellowship of man and woman is ordered toward the physical union which stands at its center and is the most intimate form of this fellowship. Nevertheless. the church must also assure those who do not enter the order of marriage that they also please God. In genera: cf Harta. pp. i i4¢— isa